OPPOSITES ATTRACT? What is Actually Happening.
We've all heard the saying "Opposites Attract." On the contrast, many people desire a relationship where both people have many similarities. From these people, you will frequently receive advice that says something like "find someone that you can get along with." Due to these conflicting experiences, relationship advice comes from different directions and can cause confusion. Here I will begin to explain the beginning point that most people aren't aware of but can lead to some clarity on relationships.
Those that know me, know that I always take things back to the soul level. First of all, both of these are perfectly valid experiences. Some people desire a connection that is calm and smooth, where all of the experiences that come in life are handled with a common understanding. Others desire the passion that arises from being quite different from your partner.
What I find is that there are different types of soul connections. For today's topic, we'll only look at romantic relationships, although the conversation gets deeper and more complex when you add in all of the connections that you have in life.
First, there are soul mates that will allow for a smooth, lovely experience. These connections are here to bolster and support you in a loving and gentle way. These relationships are generally easier to be in.
Then there are what is referred to as Karmic soul mates. These relationships can be passionate, but are only here for you to resolve a soul lesson. They can be quite confusing when they are over, and many may hang on because it felt very connecting, but it is important to realize that this type of soul connection can clear and be "gotten over." It is most healthy to learn your lessons from this type of relationship and Move On! Cutting your energetic cord with this individual is a good idea so that your energy is not going to them any longer.
The next type of connection is Twin Flame soul mates. These can frequently have friction as they are more like a Yin/Yang structure. Here is where the phrase "opposites attract" came into play. There has been a lot of talk lately of Twin Flame unions because there are more of these relationships that are actualizing right now. It is important to understand what this means and whether you actually desire this type of relationship.
A Twin Flame union is actually the same soul "essence." This means that they resonate on the same frequency. However, it is designed to bring both souls into rapid spiritual expansion. What this means is that each Twin is pointing out the "shadow" of the other. This can make for a lot of FRICTION in daily life. It will cause much "triggering" in each person. If each individual is ready to expand their spiritual development, this will be an excellent opportunity to do so because together they will be able to create a heightened vibration. The spiritual development will require MASSIVE self-responsibility.
Self-responsibility means that you will continually acknowledge your roll in creating the situation and also look deeply at what is causing your perspective. This is where the spiritual growth happens.
There are other types of soul mates that we encounter in our life. I will be posting more about each one of these types. However, if you have questions and desire to have a session with me, please go to the Contact page on my website.
Heather E. Cypel
Intuitive Energy Healer and Spiritual Teacher
Heather helps people who are ready to create shifts in their life to really embody their gifts and open to the amazing possibility within them. As an Intuitive Energy Healer, Heather can tap into your energy field to help you find your blocks and clear them to propel you into the life that you desire. She specializes in Soul Curriculums and existentialism so that she can explain soul lessons and what your circumstances are trying to tell you.
I love energy work! It is my passion and what I was designed to do. I also love teaching. In this blog you will find helpful information on your body systems as well as how to implement certain concepts into your life. Love and Light to you!